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Lyns McCracken's avatar

Oh fuck yeah! This made me feel seen.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

I'm so glad.

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

UGGHGHGHGH. Fucking preach. Thank you for this.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

My fucking pleasure. 😁

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Raveen's avatar

'...systems that deliberately keep us exhausted and underpaid...'

That's one of the most disappointing aspects of this capitalist system, that it forces us to stay on the rat race and sacrifice time and energy for poor financial benefits....when in fact the system should distribute wealth way more fairly, thus enabling us to live more comfortably and pursue our creative passions.

The stress and financial insecurities and burdens most of us are dealing with isn't at all normal and must be rejected! This is no way to live!

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Lucy Squire's avatar

Oooph this always gets me. Yes I want to "have it all" and "dream big" (whatever that means) but also I want to be realistic. And I know I've ironically been a lot happier whenever I stopped pushing myself to achieve more and actually just enjoy where I am 🤷‍♀️

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

I know, right? When I stop trying so hard, I am much more content.

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Robin Taylor (he/him)'s avatar

What the cuss was this?!!? You should cuss more. It's good stuff.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Fuck yeah!

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Shelly Stallard's avatar

FUUUUUUUUUCK !!!! This!!!!! I just had a conversation with my 20 yr old son where “I wasn’t manifesting correctly” and he was “manifesting himself a millionaire” FUCKING SERIOUSLY??????????

Fine. See how that works out. Don’t be mad when it doesn’t.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Ha! I went through a phase like that in my 20s, too. It’s part of why I’m so cranky and salty about it now. I really believed that shit and then blamed myself for years when it didn’t work.

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Shelly Stallard's avatar

OH THANK HEATHEN!!! I mean, not that you blamed yourself, but that you got through it and came out salty! I did NOT raise him like that, and idk WHAT he is consuming (aside from my extended family extreme conservatism trumpy ideas🤮), but here’s hoping he outgrows it. He had other disgusting notions, which I spoke strongly against, but what the fuck do I know, right?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

I'm sorry, that sounds hard. Sometimes the best thing we can do is just love someone. I bet your son knows how much you love him, and that matters a lot.

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Shelly Stallard's avatar

He does. I always tell him.

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Aradhana's avatar

Honestly, thank you for writing this!

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

You’re welcome! I felt that it needed to be said.

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Holly Bailie (she/her)'s avatar

Yes!! All so true!!

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Keris Fox's avatar

YES!! THIS!!!

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Fi Cooper's avatar

Yes to all of this!

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Martha Menard, PhD's avatar

What you've described is the dark side of personal finance--all responsibility placed on the individual with no acknowledgement of the larger context and systems that limit peoples' available choices.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Yes, that exactly!

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Patricia J.L. 👻🧶🖊️'s avatar

I can't hit like hard enough on this.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Fuck yes!

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Elizabeth Oldham (she/her)'s avatar

Big fan of cussing here! And I LOVE your rant. I feel so fucking validated!

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Big fucking thanks!

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Jana's avatar

Robin, please write more posts like this (including F**sss)! I needed this today 😊

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

You fucking got it. 😁

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Amanda Rose Fadely's avatar

Yeppp. Xactly.

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Robin Cangie (she/her)'s avatar

Fuckin' A.

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