Sometimes when I get frustrated or feel like I’m not making enough progress (towards a dream, a goal, a creative project, anything really), I step back and look at the longer timeline.
I think about how I’d like my life to look in one, three, or even five years, and I ask myself:
What seeds can I plant now that will help me grow into that version of myself?
I can usually think of at least a few specific things. In fact, I’m asking myself this very question right now (literally right now!), and I’m having no trouble coming up with a solid list of very actionable things I can do:
Make a spreadsheet to research agents who sell middle-grade books and are open to queries. Start with that one book I already know would make a great comp title.
Gather the final round of feedback from beta readers on my current WIP.
Start outlining the idea I have for the sequel.
Write that one email to that one future collaborator I’ve been meaning to reach out to.
Contact people in my network (I already have a list) and let them know I’m open for business.
Get the next few MeowStack posts scheduled.
Follow up with the next crop of featured authors on SmallStack.
And just like that, I have a solid to-do list for the next couple of weeks.
I’ve had this rattlesnake plant for a bit longer than five years. It was only a few inches tall when I got it, and my cat immediately chewed it to bits. I almost threw it away, but my husband encouraged me to try to save it.
I trimmed off all the chewed leaves, put it out of the cat’s reach, and made sure it had plenty of water and light. It was slow-going at first and honestly not very pretty. But now? Now it’s a gorgeous, healthy specimen that sends up new leaves every year.
I’m so glad I didn’t give up on it.
Thanks for this post Robin - I'd never thought of thinking even further away as a way for curbing my impatience. Breaking it down into bite-sized actions always motivates me, but I've probably been too focused on the nearer term goals as a source for those actions!
Sometimes i move something from one to-do list to another and that takes the place of actually doing it 😭